Sure, many head wrappers wrap for religious obligation, modesty, hair loss, headaches, other medical reasons, fashion, or whatnot. But what about those that wrap ‘just because.’ Here are some quotes from some who wrap for reasons that may seem more ‘out of the box,’ but they’re just plain ‘real.’ The bottom line is that one doesn’t need a reason to wrap! It’s just an excellent method of self-expression that brings nothing but joy to those who choose to do it – for whatever may be their fancy! In responding to the thread, some Wrapunzelistas may have talked about their wrapping for the more ‘obvious’ reasons stated above, but we just couldn’t help but to hear everyone’s reasons for wrapping! Check out all of these comments from some of our Facebook Wrapunzel Community Group!

Donna S. – ‘I decided to wrap my hair when my husband was placed in hospice. He passed 2 1/2 weeks ago, and I am now learning how to wrap some beautiful styles for which some of you have created tutorials. I needed to define myself without my person and wrapping is part of that.’

Aubri L. – ‘I wrap because I don’t owe anyone my naked hair! I choose when and how my hair is visible and it helps with my confidence and sense of grounding. I choose Jewish wrap styles for cultural connection.’

Holly N. – ‘I started because I liked the styles and patterns and thought those would be a great way for me to accessorize. But as it turns out, I don’t less for that and more for sensory purposes. I never realized it, but the sensation of hair down my neck and in my face is apparently far more bothersome to me than I ever knew. When I started covering, I noticed a distinct difference for me sensory wise and for me that is the biggest reason I continue. I admit, I do still like it as a fashion accessory for better than jewelry.’

Chelsea M. – ‘I initially started wrapping because I think it is beautiful, however, as I have developed my spiritual path, it just…feels right…to wrap/veil.’

Meira E. – ‘I was unsure of wrapping my hair fully until I got married- planned to only wrap half my hair (headband style), because I thought it was one of those things that men decided for women, and also felt I wasn’t religious enough for it. Then I discovered that it was way deeper than that, and found out that a full wrap looks incredible and powerful.’

Renee R. – ‘My wraps are like an energy barrier. As an empath, I’ve always felt overwhelmed by my and everyone else’s feelings and energies. My scarves help me contain my energy, ease anxiety, and help block out negative energies. It’s kind of like a security blanket. This time last year I was completely incapacitated from depression and anxiety. I read a post about veiling, and Wrapunzel was mentioned in one of the comments. I had always liked scarves and headbands, but never realized that when I was wearing them, I was actually responding to my body’s sensory needs without realizing it. I found a few blogs and realized wrapping could be for me. I ordered a few scarves, and I never felt more beautiful from the first day I put one on. I have been wrapping for almost a year now, and have gone from barely being able to leave my home due to the overwhelming anxiety, to volunteering at my daughter’s school, going out with friends again, being able to do daily chores, and even joining a softball team. Most of all, I like who I see in the mirror now.’

Magdi T. – ‘I started as an addition to historical reenactment. It became a research passion and a regular non-event practice. My research gave me a totally renewed respect for the strength our women who wrap as a religious observation have to set themselves apart in the eyes of the masses. It renewed my endeavors to be active in support of our women who wra because of health issues to push for better women’s health care. Much love to us all.’

Here’s a beautiful video by Sonja K. summarizing her personal reasons for wrapping!

Lily F. – ‘I wrap because I love it. I love that it makes me feel both soft and feminine, and very powerful at the same time. No religious reason… but I do wrap, regularly. My pashminas are my fave.’

Danielle S. – ‘I started wrapping in April 2025. It has helped me feel closer to God, but I have also enjoyed the benefits of a head hug. It has been an exercise in humility and yet a new way to express myself. I feel beautiful and protected at the same time.’

Andria G. – ‘I wrap sometimes purely because I need the headhug & enjoy the feeling of solidarity with women of other cultures & from history.’

Julia R. – ‘Although I started wrapping for health reasons, I intended to do wraps that I would be pleased to wear regardless of the state of my hair or scalp. It’s my aesthetic now, and hair regrowth will not change that (although I may do more half wraps or leave my hair uncovered occasionally).’

Valerie M. – ‘For me, wrapping my hair is about comfort, confidence, and connection. I’ve found that it helps with sensory regulation—on days when I wrap, I tend to experience fewer headaches and feel more grounded. I also deal with occasional hair loss due to a medical condition, and wrapping provides a sense of ease and protection.

When I attend temple, I choose to wrap as a personal expression of reverence and identity. It’s not something I do out of obligation, but because it feels meaningful to me.’

Natasha M. – ‘I wrap for various reasons. Mostly just because. It makes me feel pretty and because I am a fluffy girl it kind of balance me out.’

Kate D. – ‘I wrap for a few reasons: I am a couple generations removed from cultures which wrapped after marriage (Ukrainian), I have curly hair and wrapping allows me to not have to style it often, and I have some physical disabilities which limit my ability to style my hair. Wrapping gives me the ability to look “put together” without an hour long process.

I continue to wrap because it helps me concentrate, helps control sensory issues from the feeling of hair on my neck, and because I love the solidarity I feel with others in my community who wrap. ‘

Christine B. – ‘I am Jewish, but wrapping is not a common practice in my community. I am no longer married, so it isn’t a religious obligation. I wrap because it helps me focus my life. It helps me feel closer to HaShem. It also helps me to shut out a lot of noise and distractions.’

Jess B. – ‘I wrap for what feels like a million reasons! I wrap because I’ve felt drawn to do so for years, but I couldnt while I was active duty military. Work was really the final reason, though. Ok, maybe it was just the excuse i used. My hair wouldn’t stay up, no matter what ties I used. Also, I started shedding for no apparent reason. I work around electronics, so both of these things aren’t good. I love how creative I can be with the scarves, and how much my confidence has soared since beginning wrapping. Its also like a hug on my head all day, as long as I don’t get it too tight. I haven’t worried about how others perceive me, or the looks I get. I don’t mind anymore. My husband supports me, I love it, and I love who I’ve become lately.’

Lydia L. – ‘I’m converting Reform, so there is no obligation to wrap (or follow most of halacha); the idea is to follow the mitzvot that are most meaningful to you. Personally, I came at it slowly; I started with a kippah at services and prayer, then full-time, then moved to a bandana for the extra coverage. Finally, I took the plunge and started wrapping. It makes me feel spiritually protected. Since I moved from bandanas to wraps, I have been having much fewer spiritual-themed nightmares and I generally feel safer and more confident.’